Submissive men: Liberate your heart, get out of your head and live in alignment with your deepest desires

This work is for submissive men who desire Female Led Relationships and who have already been working on themselves through therapy, men’s circles and initiatory experiences and need additional guidance as they wake themselves up to live their lives in the fullest, most expressed way possible. 

This is for men who are ready to expand into what the heart longs for…

and what the soul desires without burning down what you love in the process.

I'm a submissive man and service top in a 24/7 long distance dynamic with my mistress.

I'm also a shadow work facilitator and embodied somatic coach for submissive men who want to honor their desire to kneel and be in a Female Led Relationship (FLR), while still respecting themselves as men.

What coaching with submissive men looks like

When you are my client, I help you:

  • Access your emotions, wants and needs and express them clearly to your dominant as an act of surrender and trust to her authority.

  • Explore and integrate your sexual shadows, fears and anxieties as a conscious empowered man who submits.

  • Honor the choice to kneel, even as you recognize you can lead.

  • Help you have the conversations you've been avoiding, so you can be fully conscious in your devotion and submission.

Submission is an active expression of the masculine, where a confident empowered man surrenders the need to be in control and chooses a life of service to his dominant.

Let me help you step into your sovereignty, so you can surrender to your bliss.

Choose which package fits your journey or start with the Crucible for your first experience:

The Crucible Single 90-Minute Session - $297

A one-time deep dive breakthrough session.

In this one on one conversation, we go straight to what matters most and co-create new perspectives, new possibilities, and action steps to help you move towards a meaningful transformation in life. 

In 90 minutes you will:

  • Get clarity and direction on a major life decision, without continuing to second guess yourself. 

  • Face a difficult conversation you've been avoiding and build the resilience and courage to have the conversation and speak your truth.

  • Get strategies that enable you to express your desires, wants and needs to your wife/domme in a way that respects the relationship and yourself.

  • Get the objective perspective and accountability on a tough question you’re facing in your life.

  • Stop playing small with your life and desire and claim your sovereignty through submission.

If you're not ready to commit to a longer package but know you need support right now, this is your entry point. Don’t stay stuck, get help!

The Sovereign Initiation -  12-Session Package - $3000

This is a 3 month intensive journey to become an expanded and aligned version of yourself, without destroying everything you’ve built and loved. 

Through our work together, you’ll bring down the protective walls around your heart that have locked you into your head, while keeping the people around you out. These walls keep you from living fully, in your relationships, your work, your body, and your soul.

Here’s what happens in the Sovereign Submission Experience:

  • During the first month we work with Internal Family Systems, Shadow Work Facilitation and Somatic Embodiment to understand the parts of you that are in conflict with your life and integrate them in a way that respects the fullness of your life and desires, without sacrificing either.

  • Then we explore the masculine archetypes of Steward, Sentinel, Devotee and Seer as guides that lead you into alignment with your deepest truths and desires.

  • Ultimately we will map your relationship patterns to your inner wounds around the masculine and the feminine, so you stop repeating trauma patterns and claim ownership of your desires cleanly and clearly.

Here’s how this benefits your relationship with yourself and your mistress:

  • You connect with your body through martial arts and somatic exercise to align you to the deepest truths you’ve denied yourself.

  • You come clean about your habits, desires, and addictions and how all of them are impacting your life and relationships, so you can make healthy transformative changes.

  • You how to stop abandoning yourself by claiming the love, respect, trust and care that must come from within you so you can submit and still respect yourself.

Some sessions will include rituals and guided processes designed to help you access the deepest parts of yourself that are hidden in shadow and sabotaging your life and relationship through porn addiction, topping from the bottom, and cheating on your mistress. 

Others will simply meet you where you are in the moment and follow what's alive within you.

We meet every week for 3 months and in between our meetings you get voice note and text support with me through Telegram.

This program and the methodologies I use adapt to what you need and we only do activities and work that you have consented to do.

The goal is simple: more groundedness and presence, more clarity, more aliveness, and deeper alignment with your values as you step fully into your sovereignty and claim your life and desires on your terms. 

This is for men who are ready to create real change at a rooted level, not surface adjustments, but fundamental shifts in how you show up in your life.

If something in you is already saying yes, trust that and book the call.

Sovereign Submission Couples Crucible - 12-Session Package - $4000

D/S dynamics can be spicy and powerful. They can also be complex and require extra support and presence. In the couples crucible I meet with the domme and submissive to help co-create the D/S dynamic and agreements that support the relationship dynamic you want to create.

Together in the sovereign submission crucible we’ll explore:

  • How to address and resolve conflict while still holding the erotic edge of the dynamic.

  • How to express desires, wants and needs clearly and cleanly so all people feel heard and supported. 

  • The hierarchy of need, want, and desire in your dynamic so you can differentiate between a need and a want and keep the dynamic empowered and erotic.

  • The creation of consensual relationship agreements that honor each person and support the dynamic and relationship you are building together.

  • The development of devotional rituals, gifting and other practices designed to help each of you lean in deeper to your dynamic and turn it into an embodied and embedded reality.

I primarily work with straight couples, but I also have experience working with polycules and people who identify as queer.

My role is to be a guide that helps you explore the full possibilities of your desired dynamic, while also making sure each of you feels heard and seen by the other(s) in a consensual and empowered relationship.

We meet every week and in between I provide voice note and text support through telegram.

If something in you is already saying yes, trust that and book the call.

PRIVATE RETREATS & INTENSIVES: Personalized and Co-Created

Sometimes what you need can't be fit into weekly sessions. 

You need concentrated time, held space, and a container designed specifically for what you're walking through.

Private retreats and intensives are one-of-a-kind experiences that I create and personalize for you. These experiences are a multi-day immersion, weekend ritual crafted around your exact question, and intensive process tailored to your moment. 

We design it together based on what you need, and I hold the space for you to go as deep as you're ready to go.

These are for men who know they need something more immersive and are ready to step away from daily life to do the work.

Private one-day or multi-day ritual intensives can be crafted for all of the transformative moments of your life or to create an in-person container for what would normally occur in The Sovereign Initiation.

If something in you is already saying yes, trust that and book the call.

What other men are saying about working with me

Taylor is kind and really listens to the people he coaches. We went over several issues, including setting boundaries and he helped me get better at setting boundaries. Taylor also understands the struggles that men go through and offered support and understanding. Taylor also helped me work on self-care with me. I highly recommend his coaching - Mark

The first question that Taylor asked me is if I could talk with my older self, what would he say to me about my life? I sat with that question for a long time. The tools and instructions that Taylor provided me helped me evolve as a man and figure out what I really want for my life. Taylor challenges you to do a deep dive into what masculinity means to you and the tools and coaching he provides will help you find the answers you need - Jack

Your Next Step

Your desire to submit is not a flaw. It’s your path to freedom. 

Say yes to yourself. Say yes to the life you’ve been hiding from. 

Man in Shadow